Marriage In Light of Eternity (Part 2) | Francis and Lisa Chan

Sermon Summary

Main Message

This message emphasizes the importance of humility in marriage, highlighting its connection to our relationship with God. We are reminded that our hearts can be deceiving, and we may not even recognize our own pride. Humility is a gift that allows us to see ourselves as God sees us, and it's essential for building strong relationships with our spouses and children.

Key Scripture References

• Matthew 22:37-40 - We are commanded to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. This love should be the foundation of our marriages, guiding us to prioritize our relationship with Christ above all else.
• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love keeps no record of wrongs, which is a crucial aspect of humility in marriage. By choosing not to hold grudges or dwell on past mistakes, we can create a safe and loving environment for our spouses and children.
• Psalms 138:6 - God's sovereignty covers more than we recognize, and He has an interest in gathering our children's hearts to Him. This verse reminds us that our role as parents is not to control or manipulate, but to point our children to Christ.
• James 4:10 - Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up. This verse emphasizes the importance of seeking humility, which is a gift from God that allows us to see ourselves as we truly are.
• Psalms 139:7-12 - God's throne of grace is where we can find true humility. By coming before His throne and acknowledging our pride, we can experience the miracle of being humbled and transformed by His spirit.

Application

This message encourages us to pray for a spirit of humility, recognizing that it's a gift from God that allows us to see ourselves as He sees us. We are reminded that pride is a destructive force in our lives, harming our relationships and witness on earth. By seeking humility, we can experience the miracle of being transformed by God's spirit and becoming more like Jesus.

Personal Reflection

As we reflect on this message, let's consider areas where we may be struggling with pride or a lack of humility in our marriages and parenting. Ask God to expose these areas and give us the gift of humility, allowing us to see ourselves as He sees us. Pray for your spouse and children, asking God to help you prioritize your relationship with Christ above all else.

Prayer

Father, we come before You today seeking a spirit of humility. Help us to recognize our pride and the ways in which it's harming our relationships and witness on earth. Give us the gift of humility, allowing us to see ourselves as You see us. Make us like Jesus, miraculously transforming us through Your spirit, word, and grace. In Jesus' name, amen.

Conclusion

This message emphasizes the importance of humility in marriage, highlighting its connection to our relationship with God. By seeking humility and prioritizing our love for Christ above all else, we can create a safe and loving environment for our spouses and children. Let's pray for this gift and trust that God will transform us into more like Jesus.